I know a lot of moms who can relate to what they’re about to read.
Some may already be applying these principles to their daily lives. Others, like me, are still in the midst of learning how to be a mom full of calmness, grace, peace, strength—and most importantly—love. Some may feel lost, living like I once did—trapped in anger and sadness, believing they’re failing at their God-given role.
No matter where you are in your parenting journey, I believe you’ll find something here that resonates.
It Starts With a Test
It begins the moment you look down at that pregnancy test and realize everything is about to change. Time seems to freeze, and your mind races with thoughts of who this baby will be, what they’ll look like, sound like, and how they’ll act.
But then come the fears:
- What if something is wrong with my baby?
- What if something happens to me?
- What if I don’t know what I’m doing?
- What if I parent them wrong?
- What if I break them?
Then Comes the Joy
Then that beautiful baby arrives. You look into their eyes, and all the fears fade—replaced by overwhelming joy. Every ounce of pain and discomfort was worth it. They’re perfect in every way, and you wonder how your heart could possibly hold so much love.
From sleepless nights to toddler tumbles, you begin to see how resilient they are. God knew they’d need hard heads!
As they grow from little kids to big kids, the world transforms. You start seeing it through their eyes—like a tiny explorer discovering joy in everything.
The Teen Years: The Storm and the Sanctification
The teen years hit. You feel unprepared again. The attitudes are fiery. The fearlessness is alarming. And that classic teen confidence—“I know everything”—keeps you on your knees in prayer.
Maybe you’re parenting a prodigal child, one whose choices break your heart. Maybe you’ve blamed yourself. But as they begin making their own decisions, you realize something important: you can’t control them.
Sound familiar?
When They Grow Up
Before you know it, they’re adults. The relationship changes. You’re no longer just “Mom”—you’re a friend. I’m not there yet, but I’ve learned from wise moms who say it’s both joyful and challenging.
You can’t fix everything anymore. But here’s the blessing: they start coming back for advice. They recognize your wisdom. And sometimes, they even admit—you were right!
You miss the chaos. The silence you once craved now feels a little too quiet. That’s why I embrace the madness while I have it.
And if you’re lucky? Grandbabies aren’t too far behind, filling your house with laughter, handprints, and joy all over again.
How Motherhood Molds YOU
Parenthood doesn’t just shape your children—it shapes you.
It’s not just about raising godly kids. It’s about God raising you through the process.
As a biblical mother, you’re called to raise your children in faith, modeling Christ’s love with selflessness and grace. I’ll be honest—I’ve turned to Google, books, apps, and people for parenting help in the past. But I’ve learned to turn to God first. Yes, I still seek guidance from Christ-centered parents, but my final authority is always Him.
God’s Word, Our Roadmap
Romans 12:10
“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”
That’s what we model as parents—honor, devotion, and love.
Proverbs 22:6
“Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.”
Even when our teens seem to “go wild,” if we’ve laid the foundation, they’ll return. I know I did.
Proverbs 31:27
“She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing from laziness.”
This verse speaks to our attentiveness and why we’re so exhausted at the end of each day—we pour out our whole hearts for our families.
God, the Ultimate Parent
God modeled all of this for us.
- He directs and corrects us.
- He is patient and tender when we’re spiritual babies.
- He allows us to fall and grow when we think we “know it all.”
- He walks with us as we mature in faith, leading us into deeper relationship with Him.
As we grow, we go from being nurtured to becoming nurturers ourselves—helping others grow in their own walk with Christ.
Your Mission as a Parent
Parenthood is a divine calling. You are partnering with God to raise the next generation.
So as you navigate this journey, remember the mission:
- Teach your children about God’s truth.
- Lay a strong foundation of faith.
- Walk alongside God as you walk alongside them.
We’re currently walking through a very hard season ourselves as parents. But we’re holding tight to God’s promises, trusting Him step by step. He is faithful. He is present. And He is guiding us through every stage of motherhood and parenthood.
You’re Not Alone!
Wherever you are—overwhelmed, hopeful, exhausted, or inspired—know this:
God sees you. He’s walking with you. And He’s using your parenting journey to grow something beautiful—in your children, and in YOU.
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